There are about 8 billion people on this planet, yet you choose one person to be your partner (for some people, more than one). It’s quite something.
It is such a shame that many couples don’t feel happy together only because they misunderstand each other. Often, they love each other but they don’t know how to express it or they don’t get their partner’s message right.
There is a Golden rule;”Do unto others as you would have others do unto you”. But sometimes what you want from your partner is not what your partner wants from you and vice versa.
There is a popular book called “Women are from Venus and Men are from Mars”. In the book, it explains when a couple have a problem, women tend to feel like they need someone to listen to them whereas men tend to try solving problems by being alone and thinking it through. If your wife looks stressed and you think;”I should let her be alone” and if you don’t talk to her, she would think;”he noticed that I was stressed yet he ignored me, he doesn’t care for me!”. This is just an example and you might think it’s a stereotype, but similar things happen.
If you learn the differences and how to solve misunderstandings, you can spend time more happily with your partner.
Ayurea would like to provide help and tips for those couples trying to make their relationship better.
